The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens:Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula

 

 

Regardless of the age of your child now,
the fact is one day they WILL be a teenager!

Are you prepared and equipped with the necessary information and skills to effectively deal with the inevitable challenges of the Teen years…and protect your relationship?

Whether you are currently in conflict with your teen or the parent of younger children,
The C.P.R. Program provides a sure-fire formula to both RESOLVE AND PREVENT conflicts.

 

Dear Parents,

You feel like you are walking on eggshells…like the most benign statements or questions are met with anger, resentment or even down-right disrespect. Innocent encounters sometimes escalate and result in over the top emotional outbursts. You witness your child making poor decisions and choices that keep you awake at night…And more importantly you are afraid you are losing the once close and loving relationship you shared.

If any of these resonate with you in your current situation, OR cause you concern for when your child reaches the teenage years,
I strongly encourage you to read on…

Today's generation of parents is not the first to fear or feel the helpless and hopeless emotions that accompany this disconnect.

This parent/teen disconnect is not new.

I recently completed a survey of parents and teenagers asking what their top concern or frustration was with their relationship…

***The #1 complaint from parents raising teens is that their teenager doesn't talk to them.

***The #1 complaint from teenagers is that their parents don't listen to them.

Interesting don't you think?

The good news is that these results demonstrate hope! When you know where the problem lies, there is a greater chance of a resolution. When it is a mutual problem, the answer is a matter of compromise. If your child hasn't reached the teen years yet, you have the opportunity to begin now learning and passing on the necessary skills and instilling this process into their everyday lives in order to minimize the potentially devastating divide and heartache many parents experience once their children reach the teen years.

There is a solution.

Over 40 years ago I first experienced the seeds to a “process” used by my parents to help one of my younger sisters get her life on a more positive track during her teen years. She was making choices that were not conducive to the cooperative life style my parents had created in our home. I remember it as a real testing of the waters so to speak!

My parents were completely in favor of allowing us to live with our consequences unless they felt we would be in emotional or physical danger…then they would intervene. What seemed to be the most upsetting for my parents was the disconnect that resulted from my sister’s "heels dug in" attitude to be uncooperative. She was simply determined to test the level of control she had over her life at that point.

I remember the final straw on one Saturday night when she told my parents she had been invited to a friend’s house for a pool party. My parents agreed and asked her to please call to let them know she had arrived safely…the party was 2 towns away. She agreed. After the first hour came and went and they didn’t receive a call from her, they began to worry.

When they called her friend’s house no one answered. (These were the days before cell phones!) Being really concerned at this point, it was decided that my father would drive there to be sure everything was okay.

When he arrived, my sister’s friend’s parents were just pulling into their driveway. There was no one else there, obviously no pool party. My father learned that the pool party had been canceled because of a family emergency which meant there would be no one there to chaperone.

Of course my father’s concern at that point was where was my sister? Even though these were the days prior to cell phones, there were pay phones at every corner and my parents were emphatic that we always carry a dime in case we needed to call home! No that isn’t a typo…you really could make a call for only 10 cents! The fact that my sister did not call to let my parents know that she did in fact get to her friend’s house safely was pretty much minimized when they learned that she had decided to go to yet another town to see a movie without checking in!

The next day was a long day of discussions between my parents and my sister.

But what happened at the end of the day changed the relationship between her and my parents, improved my sister’s attitude and eventually restored our home to a co-operative environment. My parents managed to reach an agreement with my sister that spelled out a way for everyone to move forward in a positive and constructive way that honored and respected everyone.

In the last 25 years I have used the core elements of this same process combined with what I have learned in my formal education and through my own experiences as a mother and grandmother to not only help families who were faced with a deteriorating relationship with their teen but to help parents instill this information into the lives of their younger children so that they know how to problem solve in a constructive and positive manner. 

I have seen amazing transformations as a result.

I have developed The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula to not only renew and rebuild your relationship with your child but to give you a platform to successfully work through potential conflicts before they occur.

Raising a teenager does NOT have to be filled with
stress, anxiety and tension.

Whether you are the parent of a pre-teen or teenager you know what a challenge these years can be for both parents and teenagers…it is part of the natural process of claiming independence… it can be pleasant or it can be UGLY!

This time in a child's life is inevitable…it is when Nature calls them to test their wings…

And "testing" becomes the operative word!

Teenagers are children transitioning into young adulthood.

From the parent's perspective…you have devoted your life to nurturing and teaching them all they will need to grow up to be happy, successful and responsible adults only to find yourself feeling frustrated and confused and wondering what is happening to your child!

From the teenager's perspective, they want to be their own person, independent, and respected as an individual. They feel they are ready to fly but the problem is that in order to do that they must have some practice to fine tune what you have taught them…and this is where the potential conflict lies.

Teenagers feel they know all they need to know, parents know they do not! And so the conflicts begin. These times of conflict can be anything from frequent petty arguments to making life-changing decisions. And typically, in an effort to maintain peace and harmony, parents continue as they always have, doing what they know, which places them in a reactionary position to the choices and actions of their teenager.  And so the roller coaster ride of stress, tension, anxiety and worry begins.

Is there a better time to teach your younger children the skills to
avoid the roller coaster ride?

The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens:
Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula

Isn't it time to get you and your teenager off of the unpredictable,
explosive and potentially dangerous roller coaster ride?

As parents, we all want the very best for our children and yet it seems that when they enter the teen years we are at times suddenly placed into the "enemy camp". For some it can feel like their child literally disappears and is replaced by someone we don't feel we even know. It can feel like everything is spinning out of control…

The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula is much more
than a parenting guide, it is a complete unique and innovative program that consists of two sections.

The first section, "Healthy Communication" provides you with an in-depth understanding of how to communicate so that your child receives what you are saying in a positive and constructive way.

This is not like any other book about communication on the market!

Within the over 170 jam-packed pages,you not only receive detailed explanations of the critical components of healthy communication with children, you also receive examples, real life tips and strategies complete with exercises to use with your children so that they can master these life-changing skills as well. As with any successful relationship, the key is understanding and implementing healthy communication. For most of us, we believe that communicating means that you simply state what want and you will receive an appropriate response.

The fact is that effective healthy communication is a learned skill.

For the most part we communicate the way we were raised…based on how we saw the significant people in our lives communicate without any conscious thought as to its effectiveness. Many people think that communication is simply stating your thoughts and ideas in order to receive an appropriate response. If that were the case why are there so many misunderstandings, hurt feelings and breakdowns in relationships?

What makes Section I of The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula, "Healthy Communication", different than any other product on the market is that it focuses directly on communicating with children with the primary goal being that the other person (parent or child) is able to present and receive the true intention of the conversation. This is a complete and comprehensive guide to healthy communication, consisting of proven techniques, tools, examples and activities to help you achieve the skills to effectively communicate with your children AND to help your children communicate their thoughts and feelings to you in a positive healthy way.

As a result of the information provided in Section I Healthy Communication you will no longer experience the "gap" that is at the root of so many turbulent conversations with your children.

Section II of The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula , "The Art of Negotiation" provides you with a simple 5 step formula of pinpointing the root of the conflict, developing a compromise and reaching an agreement that brings you and your child to a place of cooperation and harmony.

It effectively removes the everyday tension and frustration by leading both you and your child step by step to achieve the common goal of them successfully making the transition from child to young adulthood without the drama and chaos.

The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula is based on a creating relationship built on:

The theory behind The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula has been around for as long as human beings have existed. It is a program of identifying and acknowledging a problem, seeking a mutually beneficial resolution and then implementing an agreed upon solution with built in consequences that both parties promise to abide by. This process is used in hundreds of different areas of our lives every single day. It is the process that is at the foundation of civilization. Negotiation is the cornerstone of humanity…each side recognizing the desires of the other and a willingness for the sake of peaceful co-existence entering into a mutually beneficial resolution.

Mutual respect
Honor
Individual preferences
Trust
Unconditional love
Responsibility

When parents offer their children an opportunity to participate in a process of negotiation and demonstrate a desire and willingness to listen to them and work toward a compromise, they are sending a strong message that says, "I respect you as an individual".

This single step is the most important step in
building a solid stable healthy relationship.

You have virtually opened the door to what your child wants most, and that is to be viewed as their own person, with a voice as to what happens in their own life, trusted to make their own choices.

By implementing The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula you are offering them a way to achieve this very natural next step in their growth and empowering them with the skills to be a part of the process that builds a relationship filled with peace and joy.

The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula leads parents and their child through the process of naming the specific desires of each person…

Common topic areas of conflicts:

By using the provided Healthy Communication skills and techniques, following the 5 step Negotiation Formula, the focus is placed on creating a mutually beneficial and workable compromise that allows your relationship to grow stronger because you are working as a team. Make no mistake, this is NOT a license for your child to do or have everything he/she wants…You are still the parent. However, with that being said, your role is clearly being re-defined because your relationship is being re-defined by virtue of the natural process of your child preparing for the adult world.

You are not giving them their way,
You are giving them a say!

The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens: Conflict Prevention/Resolution Formula  guides you to understand the shift that is happening in your relationship and gives you the tools and insights to adapt to this change in a positive and successful way…a way that enhances your ability to communicate, maintain a sense of closeness and strengthen the bond between you and your child. For the sake of your relationship, the emotional well-being of your child don't hesitate. ACT NOW. Every day that goes by without this life-changing program is another day lost to the explosive and potentially damaging roller coaster ride of the teen years.

Whether your child is 5 or 15 it is never
too early or too late to begin!

The earlier you begin, the sooner this healthy positive and constructive process will
become a natural part of your child's every day existence.

I know first-hand that the value of this program is immeasurable, therefore, for quite some time I have been diligently working to transform all of this information into e-Book format in order to provide it to all parents in an easily accessible way and at an affordable price. I am thrilled to be able to offer it to you NOW!

I understand that for Only $ 91.77 I will receive the complete program within the over 170 pages of information,
tools, tips and strategies, as well as hands on activities to provide me with the skills to effectively put my relationship with my child on a path of cooperation, mutual respect, honor and trust.

Say YES…YES! I want to begin NOW teaching my children to successfully meet any challenge they may face in life in a positive, constructive, successful way…I want the tools and skills to implement now in order to minimize the drama and chaos of the teen years that literally divides so many families…

Say YES...YES! I am the parent of a teen and I want the tools & skills to renew and rebuild my relationship with my child…I want to re-connect with my teen…I want to understand…I want to help…I want the joy back…and I want to start today!

Only $ 91.77

Your Price $ 61.77

 

 

 

 

Read what parents are saying…

"Denny, I have just applied your 5 step formula with my 7 yr old and am so excited at his response. No arguing or back-talk! As soon as I knew we were headed toward a problem I did just as you said and it worked! I still can't believe we settled the problem in less than 20 minutes and without the usual emotional fits." 
~Laura, Mother of One

"This is the best Mother's Day gift I could have received even if I bought for myself! I showed the program to my 15 yr old and she said,"When can we start?" My husband and I are still in shock! Will keep you posted!"
~Meghan, Mother of Two

"It works! My 15 yr. old son had been giving me fits for awhile with a rude attitude about everything. It had gotten so bad that I was embarrassed to have him around when other people were around. I was really out of ideas because grounding him only seemed to make him more angry. After I got your program I went to him with a list of the things that were a daily hassle between us and said, "Let's solve these so we don't have to argue about them everyday." He looked at the list and in his usual "Whatever attitude" said "Right" and went back to doing what he was doing. So I asked him if he enjoyed the constant bickering and arguing. He said "Not really." After asking him what he had to lose by trying he agreed.

The best part was the look on his face when we went through the steps for the first thing on the list (keeping his room picked up) and reached an agreement in a matter of minutes! He said, "What has gotten into you?" I never thought we would ever agree on how my room looked! Thank you, Denny! We are always working on our list but now we are working together instead of fighting against each other!"
~Margarette, Mother of Three

" I just wanted to say that "The C.P.R. Program for Parents & Teens" is exactly what my relationship with my 14 yr.old son needed. I love the title "C.P.R."! After working your program for awhile now I can tell you that "cpr" is what it feels like happened in my family. Instead of outbursts and rages of confusion, my son simply says he wants to "talk" about whatever the situation is. I never thought I would see the day that my son would be the one saying that. It brings tears to my eyes just thinking about how this program has changed our relationship. He doesn't look at me as if I am some idiot that doesn't understand him anymore. I highly recommend every parent get The C.P.R Program, it is worth every penny!
~Erma, Mother of One

"As a parent and a teacher of elementary age children, I am amazed at the immediate results "The C.P.R Program for Parents & Teens" produces. I purchased the program to use with my 13 yr old daughter, which has proven to be tremendously successful, but then found myself using the new skills I learned concerning communication in my classroom with my 2nd graders. It has made such a difference in how they respond to me and actually hear what I am saying to them. I have recommended to all my student's parents that they get this book to use as home. This is an amazing program that all parents should have!"
Beth, Mother of Two